You're more than your work, and your relationship is more than a stereotype.
Finding someone to talk to about your life and relationships shouldn't mean having to defend your profession, teach someone the realities of your work, or wonder whether the person across from you is quietly judging your choices.
You deserve to be understood as a person first. Not a profession. Not a stereotype. Not somebody else's assumptions.
WHAT BRINGS PEOPLE IN
What can we work on together?
Relationships are my focus. But they're not the only thing we can work on.
Maybe you're trying to navigate jealousy or conflicting expectations with a partner.
Maybe you're struggling to maintain boundaries with clients, colleagues, friends, or family.
Maybe you're sorting through questions about identity, autonomy, disclosure, or what you want your life to look like.
Maybe you're making a difficult professional decision, rethinking your business, or considering a change you haven't quite figured out how to make.
Or maybe you're dealing with something that has absolutely nothing to do with sex work.
You don't have to fit your situation into a predetermined category. We can start with whatever matters to you.
Sometimes it's complicated by the work.
Sometimes it's just plain old relationship stuff.
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Jealousy & insecurity
Making room for difficult feelings without turning them into accusations, demands, or control.
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Work & personal intimacy
Navigating what intimacy means in different contexts, without someone else defining it for you.
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Privacy & disclosure
Deciding what to share, with whom, and how to navigate the consequences together.
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Boundaries & agreements
Building expectations that respect autonomy, values, and the people involved.
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Stigma & assumptions
When outside judgment starts finding its way into how you see yourself or each other.
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The same fight, again
Recurring conflict, distance, resentment, or broken trust that may have nothing to do with the industry.
I won't assume your work is the problem. I won't assume it isn't, either.
My understanding didn't come from a weekend workshop.
My understanding of the sex industry comes from years of direct engagement with the people in it—not assumptions, stereotypes, or secondhand accounts. Through years of ethnographic fieldwork with the Erotic Entrepreneurs Project, I worked closely with people across the industry, gaining a deeper understanding of the realities of the work, their relationships, and their lives beyond the industry. My research included analyzing thousands of erotic entrepreneurs' business strategies and conducting in-depth interviews that often moved well beyond business—into identity, intimacy, and the complexities of navigating their personal and professional worlds.
I've published peer-reviewed research and presented internationally, working to challenge stereotypes and bring a more human, nuanced understanding of the industry into academic and public conversations.
One thing that work reinforced is how much people get wrong when they assume they understand someone's life because they know what that person does for a living.
Sex workers aren't a monolith. Neither are their relationships.
FOR BOTH SIDES OF THE CONVERSATION
Partners get a voice here, too.
If you're the partner of someone working in the industry, your feelings matter, too. You can talk about jealousy, insecurity, uncertainty, or conflicting expectations without being automatically labeled judgmental.
That doesn't mean every feeling justifies every behavior. It means we can take your experience seriously while also examining how you respond to it.
The same accountability, dignity, and respect apply to everyone in the room.
You don't have to sanitize your experiences, defend your work, or make your relationship fit someone else's definition of normal. Let's start with a conversation where you don't have to defend your right to be understood.
You can bring the whole story.
If finances are a barrier, please do not allow cost to stand between you and the support you need. I reserve a portion of my practice for people facing financial hardship, who pay a reduced rate based on need. If cost is a concern, please reach out to see if I have any sliding scale availability.